No matter how romantic a person you are, over time your romantic relationship can lose some of its steam. This doesn’t necessarily mean that your relationship is in trouble or that you love each other any less, only that the spontaneity and excitement that was a near-daily part of your relationship has been replaced with repetition and responsibilities.
Perhaps job requirements have increased and maybe there are kids around who certainly don’t increase your desire for romance, or maybe you just failed to notice until you see a couple who are romantic with each other and then it hits you that this part of your relationship has gone dormant. Whatever the situation is that created the realization, you need to take it seriously and you need to do some things now. Here are two things that you can do put a spark back in your relationship.
Book a Romantic Weekend Getaway
Because of our busy schedules, most of us have a really difficult time getting away on a long vacation. These types of excursions take lots of planning, a good deal of money, and coordination with your spouse and the rest of your family on where you actually going to go. So suggesting that you take a long romantic vacation will probably only add more stress to your situation.
Instead, how about you book a romantic weekend break with your significant other. The UK offers great romantic weekend packages that will fit within your budget and deliver a weekend worth of love to the two of you. Each of the getaway destinations are beautiful and many are in older classic homes and estates located in the country, near beautiful forests and rivers, and even along the shore. The weekends are inclusive of everything you need to turn on the romance.
In addition to a romantic setting you can also order in advance champagne, chocolates, and any other specific food you want delivered to your room. You can also have breakfast in bed, in the garden, or by the pool. You can even choose to never leave your room the entire weekend and decide together how to rekindle your low burning flame together. A UK romantic weekend getaway is the perfect choice to bring some romance back to your relationship.
Send a Surprise Naughty Gift
If you’ve never sent or a naughty gift to someone you are romantically involved with, then you don’t have any idea of the potential response. There’s something about a person buying and sending sexy underwear, toys, or even handcuffs that can really get a person’s juices flowing. Perhaps it’s the thought that your significant other went through all the trouble to locate and then purchase the garment or toy, or perhaps it just brings back memories of a more exciting past. Whatever the reason, the result is that sparks will usually begin to fly again. To spice things up even more, send the gift to your significant other anonymously and don’t let them know that it was you until the two of you are alone at night.
Remember that the most important part about creating sparks in your the mental part so whether it’s a weekend getaway or a sexy surprise naughty gift don’t downplay the mental aspects of your efforts Build up anticipation and drama and make things as mysterious as possible. This adds to the excitement and romance.
If you choose either or both of these ideas on a regular basis, you are sure to be back to the same romantic level but you are at when you first met.